Pretty without Apology
In an ideal world, we want our home to be beautiful and practical all the time, but life is never ideal, and when we have to choose we tend to focus on the practical part first (because it seems like the right thing to do) then we decorate (leaving the fun stuff until the very end (or never). Unfortunately, once we grow up we become more sensible, and we want to get everything right, without being frivolous or wasting too much time; it’s a bit like forcing ourselves to eat all of our broccoli before we’re allowed to taste the ice cream, when sometimes, just sometimes, we really should have the ice cream first (with sprinkles).
Right now, I am a little overwhelmed by my Living Room. It looks like Winter; like I am settling in for a long nap with a cozy fire, warm plaid blankets, and lots of art and books. With daffodils starting to peek through the ground it feels wrong, and I am also feeling incredibly impatient. I don’t want to neatly label boxes and take my time trying to decide what to donate, keep and trash, I want to move things around and make it look pretty. I want instant gratification, and I want it now.
So, that’s what I am going to do as soon as I finish this blog. I am going to ignore the rules (well, most of them) and take out what I don’t like in the room anymore; a picture that has faded, a few too many rocks that I can’t remember where I got them from, and a candle that I keep moving around (constantly hoping that one day I will learn to like the person who gave it to me). I don’t mean to sound harsh, but I don’t like to look at things that bother me (this could be open to interpretation I know, but that is the beauty of decorating. It is one of the easiest things to control in our lives, so why should we look at things that don’t give us joy?)
In a couple of hours I know that I can pack up what I don’t like, take the pictures off the walls, pile all my knick-knacks and books on the table, and move the furniture to one side. Then, I will spackle and paint the nail holes (most important, because otherwise I will just plonk it all back up in the same spot again, which defeats the whole process). And, if I am rushed and have to spackle with toothpaste, and the paint doesn’t match exactly when I get up close without my glasses, that’s okay. I am looking for something fresh and pretty in an afternoon, not perfection.
When I put it all back, it might not be a candidate for HouseBeautiful, but I make no apologies, and it will be just right for me…
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